Lesson 09Emotional Intelligence
Ms. Hubika Joshi

Emotional Intelligence means knowing how to understand and handle your own emotions and also others emotions. It is the ability to notice, understand, control, and use emotions in smart way. It helps you work better with people, manage stress, and become strong leader. Daniel Goleman's work shows EI is just as important as IQ in school and work life. IQ is about thinking and solving problems, but EQ is understanding feelings and working with people. Both are important, but EQ often helps more in real life success.

Emotional Intelligence Core concepts

🔸 Self awareness - Recognizing your own emotions
🔸 Self regulation - Managing your emotions in healthy ways
🔸 Motivation - Stay focused and work towards your goals
🔸 Empathy - Understanding the emotions of others and responding appropriately
🔸 Social skills - Build good relationships and solve problems

Main EI Skills

🔸 Recognize emotions - in yourself and others
🔸 Use emotions - to guide your thinking
🔸 Understand emotions - and what they mean
🔸 Manage emotions - stay in control even when stressed

Goleman's Five Competencies

🔸 Self awareness
🔸 Self regulation
🔸 Motivation
🔸 Empathy
🔸 Social skills

Primary Emotion Secondary Emotion
Anger Hate
Sadness Depression
Fear Panic
Love Obsession
Enjoyment Mania
Surprise Offense
Disgust Revulsion
Shame Guilt

Benefits of Emotional Intelligence

🔸 Improves teamwork and leadership
🔸 Helps you stay calm and solve problems
🔸 Makes decision making easier
🔸 Builds stronger relationships
🔸 Reduces stress at school or work

What i learnt 🎯

✅ EI can be practiced and improved.
✅ Being aware of emotions helps manage reactions.
✅ Controlling impulses is key for leadership.
✅ Emotions can grow into bigger issues if ignored.
✅ EQ is useful in every part of life.

What was interesting 💡

The idea that emotions leak through your body like facial expressions or tone of voice really made me notice how much we show without saying nothing. Also, learning that strong emotions like love or fear can turn into something bad if not controlled properly, shocked me. Goleman's view that EI can build better schools and workplaces made me see how powerful it is really.

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